Not every book group is a success, and while often it’s worth waiting to build an audience and nurture the group, sometimes you have to cut your losses and try something else later. This is particularly hard for me personally; not only am I crazy about the fun of reading and discussing books (you can tell, can’t you?), but I am also very stubborn and persistent and basically unwilling to give up on anything if there’s a possibility it might work.
That said, after a number of months of the It’s Not Rom-Complicated Book Group, when we never had more than three people, I decided, reluctantly, to pull the plug, at least until the spring.
I’ll have plenty of time to think about what happened, or, more properly, what didn’t happen. Possibly the low attendance was because of the time when we had the group (Tuesday nights). Possibly it was because I didn’t provide refreshments (don’t laugh;at two of my other book groups, which are quite large, I provide doughnuts and coffee, and I am quite sure that’s a draw). It’s possible I didn’t publicize it enough, though I did push the group to anyone who showed any interest in romantic comedies at all.
And finally, maybe there just isn’t that big an audience for a book group devoted to Rom Coms. I’m willing to admit that my taste isn’t everybody’s (if you’ve been following this blog, you KNOW that already), and if it turns out there aren’t that many people who want to read this genre together and talk about it, well, that’s the way the ball bounces.
And the fact that I’m running three other book groups might have had something to do with my willingness to back down on this one. Reading four books a month isn’t necessarily a problem for me (I’m a fast reader, thank heavens), but sometimes the books for other groups are more involved and longer, and it’s nice to have a little more time to be able to finish them all in time (there have been times, after all, when I have been reading a hundred pages or more in a day to finish before the book group meeting).
But remember I said I’m stubborn: I’m not giving up on romantic comedies altogether. I’ll give us another chance in the spring, possibly with a different date and time, and see if we can build something together then.